The world can be a cruel, cruel place and often we’re misguided by theories people speak about like they’re true. Having worked in the fashion and entertainment industry, I speak about this with first-hand knowledge. We examine, form an opinion and perceive things at first glance with our visual sight. We’re not supposed to judge a book by it’s cover, though most of us do. Be honest – it’s hard not to. That’s your first impression. Is it possible to withhold judgement until a person speaks though? Is it really?

I think it is. Because that person is not what they look like or what they wear. That person is not how much money they make or what size dress they fit in. That person is not what they do for a living (despite what some think). That person is a soul within a capsule called a body. Souls are connected Universally. Souls do not know judgement or ego like humans do. We were spirit before we were placed inside a humanly form. Spirit only knows love and kindness. So why does society let our egos run our mouths? Why do we let our egos form our opinions, instead of letting our soul speak the truth? 

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(PHOTO CREDIT: Winky Boo L.L.C.)

The next time you meet someone new or pass a stranger I want you to smile. Regardless of the mood you’re in. Despite the argument or bad day you just had. Smile. Smile because when you smile it’s hard for the ego to push past the spirit. Smile because it’s contagious. Smile because for some miraculous reason when you put a smile on your face DESPITE your circumstances your spirit will connect to the the spirits you belong with. It’s a small change, but baby steps are the building blocks for any kind of growth in life. I’ll sum today’s #FoodForThought up with a beautiful quote by actress Tilda Swinton:

“I never quite understand the way society decides who is beautiful and who is not. But an open face and a capacity for kindness always feel like reliable signifiers to me.” – Tilda Swinton

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