What we have is what we are. If you love yourself fully, you allow others to love you. If you love others fully, you allow yourself to love you and you welcome the love from another into your life. This works the other way around as well. When you can see someone else with loving eyes and not attack and not judge, you open the gates for healing. When someone “attacks” you, they are asking for healing. So your response should always be one of love. 

So how do you apply this to your life? Simple: If you want to be loved, love yourself. If you want to be loved, love others. If someone appears to not act lovingly, bless them with the gift of love (kindness, respect, appreciation) for that is where healing begins for them. If you are able to respond lovingly, you have passed the spiritual test of healing oneself and you have spread the gift of love into another’s life by showing them that only love is real. Today’s Daily Affirmation is:

~ ~ Winky Boo. Discover You. ~ ~