You matter. Your feelings matter. How you feel about yourself…it matters most of all! Find time every single day to indulge in something…anything that brings you joy. Sometimes the day gets away from me and I don’t get to do EVERYTHING I love, but I always make time to meditate and read. I also always pick a day to set time aside for just me. Whether I go get my nails done or just buy myself some flowers or a new sweater. I treat myself how I want others to treat me. I have found that on days where I have put myself last and ignored the things that bring me happiness – it reflects in all my interactions that day. There’s tension and stress and yet on days where I indulge myself FIRST, the love just overflows from those around me. I receive and receive and receive even more just because I gave myself more.
This is something so many people overlook. I make it my business to constantly remind clients and those around me – family, friends, etc. to treat themselves. To do something for themselves! Some responses I typically get resisting this are, “I don’t have the time for me,” or “I work full-time,” or “I don’t have the money after all is said and done.”
Let me tell you a little secret dolls: We MAKE time for the things we want to do. We all have the same amount of time – it’s simply how you manage that time. An act of self-love can take 5 minutes if you stop and buy yourself some flowers. You don’t need hours to do things that make you happy. Far too many people work just for the money. I’m not here to tell you to quit, but I am here to tell you that we each have a purpose here and that purpose is to fill yourself up with love and joy. Lean into joy as I always say. So if you’re complaining about your work and you’re working 40+ hours a week – you can still find the time to bring YOU some happiness to your life. You can…I promise you! And finally….money is energy. If you feel like there’s never enough, there will never be enough for you because that is the energy you are exuding. If you understand the way the Universe functions then you know your NEEDS are always provided for. Working or not working – you are always provided for IF you believe that and accept it. So my point is you might have less then $100 in your bank account and zero cash in your wallet – but if you are fulfilling your purpose of making YOU happy – the Universe has your back and will provide what you need. Trust me…if you don’t believe that – shoot me a message and I’ll give you example after example from my own life. Today’s Daily Affirmation is:
~ ~ Winky Boo. Discover You. ~ ~