When you start treating you the way you want other’s to treat you, that’s when other’s will follow your lead. You need to set the tone for what it is you want in your life. If you want love and happiness then be happy and loving towards yourself. If you want peace then make sure you are peaceful in your thinking, feeling, speaking and doing. Everyone and everything around you just reflects what you do, how you are and what you feel.
If you are unsure of yourself, you will encounter others who are unsure of you. If you undervalue yourself, you will interact with those who don’t value you either. The world is our mirror. Relationships with friends, family and lovers are our mirrors. They all exist for the purpose of helping us learn about ourselves. We take sh*t way too seriously though and place a lot of these individuals around us on pedestals when in reality they are merely tools divinely provided to us to help us in remembering who we really are.
So rather than treat all this external stuff in your life so serious – why not enjoy it and use it to help you grow and learn? That is what it’s there for! When someone comes around that upsets you, use it as a sign to start treating yourself kinder. If people jump in and out of your life, not knowing whether they’re coming or going – use it as an opportunity to start becoming sure of who you are and what you stand for. If you’re a chameleon, you will be surrounded by them too! Reflect out into the world what you wish to receive and you will notice the world really isn’t as cruel as your ego makes it seem. Today’s Daily Affirmation is:
~ Winky Boo. Discover You. ~ ~