Everyday we are ebbing and flowing. We’re never at a consistent standstill and I believe that’s the problem most humans have. We are searching for the ultimate prize. We are seeking to achieve everything we’ve ever dreamed of all at once. We want so desperately to remain at the peak of the mountain and we get frustrated when each day we feel like we’ve slipped down a little and then climbed back up, slid down again and climbed back up.

You'll know you're there when...

There is no reason to feel discouraged when you think you’ve slid down again. You are dancing with life, not rock-climbing. So rather than gear-up and look at how far you still have to go, put your dancing shoes on and prepare yourself to have a little fun!

The more fun you’re having, the better you’ll feel. The better you feel, the happier you’ll be. Happiness attracts happiness. You know what that means? If you’re happy, you’re heading in the right direction. The direction you desire. So twirl, kick, thrust and smile while you cha-cha towards your desires. But remember, you’re always moving and flowing in a dance. If you fall down, you get right back up. If you miss a step, just move to the next. 

If you know anything about dance then you know that you need to be light on your feet. If you’re going to put all your weight into every movement you’re going to be off-beat, out of rhythm and not in sync with the other dancers. Essentially you’re just going to be making it way too hard on yourself.

You need to put passion into every movement but maintain balance.
You need to be sharp but allow yourself to flow freely.
You need to smile and have fun but stick with the music.

Listen dolls…it goes the same for life.

Stop putting so much pressure on yourselves. Stop making every decision so heavy and weighted.

Keep it light and fun.
Move freely and easily and maintain balance.
Smile and laugh and let sh*t roll off your back.

If you're happy, you're heading in the right direction.

This shouldn’t sound too simplistic for you because most of you have been trying it the other way for far too long and you’re realizing it’s just not working. Just like trying to dance with your feet tied together – it’s too hard, pretty much impossible and it’s just never going to work.

So if you feel like there’s lead in your feet and things aren’t flowing the way you desire – you’re probably overcomplicating it. Stop forcing and just let it flow. Allow the music to direct your steps. If you just stop trying so hard, it’ll all work out. If you just stop trying to figure out the next step, it’ll come to you.

All you need to do is smile and remember how much fun you’re having doing the dance in the first place. That’s how you’ll know you’re there in that happy place, that blissful state. That’s how you’ll know you’re heading in the direction of your desires!

Smile and remember how much fun you're having.

You’ll be smiling just because. It doesn’t matter if it’s not working right now (because truthfully it’s ALWAYS working, just maybe not the way you’d do it.), the dance isn’t over yet and the music is still playing. Smile because of the steps that got you here. Smile because ‘Opps, you forgot a step’. Smile because of the steps that are coming. That ending is going to be a showstopper – smile because you love going out with a BANG! 

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Lots of Love,