I want you to follow your joy and I want you to recognize that IN that joy...in those joyful activities are ALL THE FEELINGS you are searching for in other people, in money, in better jobs, etc. We withhold ourselves happiness by thinking we need to wait for it. So we sit and sulk [...]
A common theme I encounter with clients or prospective clients is this fear of judgement, particularly when it comes down to their life, career and marital status. I've had this very fear myself. For as long as I can remember I thought I'd be married by the age of 30 - I am now 31 [...]
Listen there is no destination. Sometimes I don't like that either but it's true. There is no place you are getting to. Each "destination" evolves into another goal that unearths inside your heart the moment you get there. I was driving yesterday and was looking at passing cars and thought to myself "everyone [...]
For as long as I can remember I've been comparing myself to others around me. Even when I don't think I'm comparing, I'm comparing. Even when I intentionally try not to compare, I still compare. As humans we're prone to looking externally and seeking out what we perceive we're missing internally. But recently something clicked [...]
I reach this place from time to time where I find myself saying, "I don't want to know." It's a really nice place to reach.....and no, not for the implied ignorance this statement might initially make you believe. It actually relates to business. You don't often see me write or talk about business, but I [...]
We create illusions and entertain them for a while. That's life.Illusions = fears, doubts, uncertainties, limiting beliefs, negative thoughts, worries. They're a waste of our time.. Let me explain why: Our illusions are like shadow monsters on the wall. When you were young the shadows probably spooked you at times. For me it was the [...]
See...I used to think life was planned out around what I HAD to do. But then I learned that you actually NEED to be planning YOUR LIFE out around what you WANT to do. That probably goes against everything you were ever taught. And I'm totally ok with that. You should be too! If you've [...]
I sat across the table and watched her make a face as she slumped her shoulders and slurped her soup and I couldn't understand why she wouldn't just say, "I'd like to have it." She asked him several times, "Do you want that last hot dog," and he responded with, "I'm not sure." I couldn't [...]
Choices. We all have them. We like to pretend at times that things are beyond our control or free will choice but they aren't. Everything is a choice. Feeling good is a choice. It's the only thing that matters. Yes...even if you are sick. You get to choose what you focus on. And in case you weren't aware [...]
Stop asking for so little. You deserve the entire Universe. And the entire Universe is yours. But you need to UP your game. Stop asking for so little when you deserve so much more! The only reason you keep accepting less than you deserve is because you thought you had a limit on what you could have. YOU DON'T! [...]