For as long as I can remember I've been comparing myself to others around me. Even when I don't think I'm comparing, I'm comparing. Even when I intentionally try not to compare, I still compare. As humans we're prone to looking externally and seeking out what we perceive we're missing internally. But recently something clicked [...]
What you consciously choose to feel is exactly what you're going to see. The good news is you can change your mind about anything, any second of the day. You can rewrite the story you tell yourself whenever you choose to and the minute you realize that you have that power....you will FEEL more empowered! [...]
Stop trying to control. Stop trying to plot out all the workings of your life. State your intentions, tell God your desires and trust where you're being led. Allow life to work FOR you...don't do the heavy lifting, that's the Universe's job. I realized actually recently that I've been doing a lot of extra work [...]
Find it in you to take a second each day and show yourself how much you appreciate you. We're so busy sometimes giving and being there for others that we forget how important it is to show ourselves some T.L.C. To give ourselves the attention and affection we deserve. How do you think you'll be able to [...]
You exist for a purpose. We all have a passion inside of us - each unique and individual to us. Don't think for one second that you are just alive to suffer through. Don't think that you are here to just work a job you hate just to pay the bills. It's actually the complete [...]
A dimly lit candle in a dark room still glows. During one of those strange October snowstorm/power outages in the last few years that hit New Jersey, I paid close attention to a night light I have in my bathroom. For some strange and unforeseen reason when the power in the entire house, street and [...]
Give and keep giving loves. You can't receive what you aren't willing to give. That's the way the Universe works. It's a constant back and forth motion of giving and receiving. In order to have more of something, you must be willing to give more as well. Don't keep score. The Universe has it all [...]
I know this is quite a bold statement I'm about to make but some of us are going about this thing called life all wrong. For some reason a lot of us were raised to think you go to school, get a good job, get married, have kids and then the cycle repeats all over [...]
Sometimes we don't know we're learning until we learn. Growing until we grow. My advice though, don't analyze your days, ride them out and trust what's happening is for your benefit. I have a brief story to share and I wouldn't even call it a story - more like an awakening....a revelation I had just [...]
We're approaching that time of year where stress kicks in at an all-time high. The holidays are approaching quickly and the end of the year is right around the corner. Have we accomplished everything we set out to do? Are we where we wanted to be? Have we grown? Have we progressed? Will we ever [...]