When you are off balance internally, it extends externally into your life and relationships. When you fill yourself up on the inside, you are able to keep giving of yourself without losing yourself. That’s the important part here – without LOSING yourself! Just like a gas tank, you need to refill your love internally daily, weekly, monthly. You need to pump yourself full of self-love. 

So many out there try to give so much so often forgetting that if you keep giving without giving to yourself as well, you have nothing more to give. That’s when you feel drained and used. But self-love is crucial because it’s the root of everything. It’s the root of our thoughts and feelings which then extends into our mind, life, interactions and relationships. When you feel good on the inside, you express it on the outside. Not only in the words you choose to speak and the love you choose to give, but it shows energetically. You become a magnet for good vibes! 

Love yourself first

You start magnetizing everything you are reflecting internally. Lack of love for ourselves is what affects our perceptions of others and how they treat us. If we feel love for ourselves, we will feel love coming from those around us. They are only treating us how we show them to treat us. We will lift ourselves up to a higher vibration where we won’t even be mingling with those who don’t recognize our worth. So today dedicate yourself to filling up your tank with as much love as possible. Indulge yourself in things you absolutely adore doing. Pamper yourself. Immerse yourself in self-love and you will see how all your interactions this week lift to a higher vibration all because you made YOU a priority!

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The Amy L. Fiedler Way

Amy L. Fiedler is a Certified Holistic Life Coach, Spiritual Mentor, Ordained Minister and Reiki Master of Natural Healing. She is the founder and head guru of Winky Boo ® Lifestyle + Life Coaching. Amy guides clients through one-on-one transformational sessions helping you move from fear to love by breaking through your blocks to co-create the life you’ve always dreamed of. Amy uses a holistic method guiding and teaching you with what she calls “practical spirituality” for the spiritual, non-spiritual or even the anti self-help folks. Her intuitive and practical approach gives you honest and authentic advice with simple ways to radically change your life.