We are all just trying to get ok with who we are. Flaws, f&ck ups, mistakes, fears and everything else in between still make us who we are. Sometimes we are so focused on improving ourselves we forget to love even the misguided parts of ourself. You know those parts need love too. The parts [...]
God is using you. Yes...whether you asked him to or not. God is placing you in places and in front of people for a purpose. God is directing your steps and showing you the way...the way back to peace, love and truth. That way is from within. I wish I had known this when I [...]
Let's put things in perspective today, shall we! Those things you want so badly, or think you want so badly - they're not actually the things you want. Let me explain: You're chasing after a feeling. It's the feeling you are craving within yourself that you think these things will bring you. And they will [...]
What do you do when you don't know what to do? My answer has always been "do nothing". Which holds true but I want to go deeper into this for a moment and explain why. Sometimes we are aching just to do something about a situation. Our ego always wants to take action - it [...]
You are never going to get it "perfect" dolls. Something that took me years to learn. I had this idea that once I got everything figured out, fixed, healed and just so, that everything else I was desiring would fall into place. This just might be the biggest lie out there. We never figure it [...]
As humans we encounter situations where we want to control things. We want to control the outcome and the way things happen. But the problem is when you attempt to control you grasp and reach and just try to force sh*t and let's face it dolls...forcing sh*t doesn't work. You know what works...relaxing. Relaxing and [...]
We are constantly ebbing and flowing through life. We are always moving forward even when we don't always feel like we are. Even when it feels like we f&cked up, that needed to happen to show us something or help us learn something. Everything that happens, needs to happen. Everything that happens is supposed to [...]
Why do we blame others for how we feel? Why do we find it so difficult to take responsibility for our own feelings? Sometimes we don't even realize we're not taking responsibility for our feelings. I've been working on this a lot lately through spiritual work and while speaking with a friend/client of mine she used [...]
Be patient with yourself. You are constantly learning, healing and growing. It takes time. You need to be gentle and loving and allow things to surface and float away. We are all so hard on ourselves when we get upset or angry or frustrated. I know I can be super hard on myself when I feel [...]
Stop trying to figure it out. Stop trying to fix it. Stop trying to change it. Just let it be. I have learned when it seems like nothing is working in your favor...that's when everything is. It is only your resistance to change and being out of control that makes it ALL seem hard, sad, heavy and overwhelming. Trust me [...]