Have you felt your own love lately? Seriously…have you? I know it sounds like a silly question but far too many of us believe that we need to obtain love from the relationships we have. We need to be filled up from the individuals around us. But let me start by saying this – how would you know what “love” feels like if you haven’t felt it from yourself first?

Go ahead, digest that for a moment. Then consider this – do you even know what it’s like to feel love from within? Most people don’t, but that’s where I come in handy because I’ll break it down very simply for you – when you can look in the mirror at yourself and genuinely say “I love you” you’ll know you got there!

But the way you get there is by immersing yourself in activities that you enjoy. Do what makes you happy – all the freakn’ time! Surround yourself with individuals who build you up and encourage you. Who see the person you are on the inside. People who you can look at and feel immensely supported. When you feel that from those around you – it’s a mere reflection of your internal condition. So if you truthfully FEEL kindness and support and respect and encouragement to do what you love, be who you are and grow into the best version of yourself possible – then you know damn well that you got there. Because ALL your relationships mirror how you feel towards you. If the ones around you bring you down and discourage you. If they drain your energy and make you feel like you’re anything less than what you really are – then you know you need to step aside and look within. You can’t blame anyone else for your lack of love. It’s solely your responsibility. And I’ll tell you one more secret – so is your happiness! I challenge you to ALWAYS be doing what it is that makes you happy. Always surround yourself with people who light you up. This helps your soul remember what your truth is. Today’s Daily Affirmation is:

~ ~ Winky Boo. Discover You. ~ ~