say no to the spiritual rat race For many individuals, spirituality is a way of bettering themselves. But for many more, the intention of 'bettering one-self' becomes an addiction. And just like any addiction, when living it, you often become immune to it. It's difficult for you to see while in it, but take one [...]
I want you to follow your joy and I want you to recognize that IN that joy...in those joyful activities are ALL THE FEELINGS you are searching for in other people, in money, in better jobs, etc. We withhold ourselves happiness by thinking we need to wait for it. So we sit and sulk [...]
A common theme I encounter with clients or prospective clients is this fear of judgement, particularly when it comes down to their life, career and marital status. I've had this very fear myself. For as long as I can remember I thought I'd be married by the age of 30 - I am now 31 [...]
how to spot manipulation in a relationship People who are manipulative will blame you for their actions. They will hold you accountable for how THEY feel. Manipulation is a way for individuals spiritually wanting (choosing) to stay stuck in their wounds, to feel better. They use you as a scapegoat for their pain. I am [...]
But...what does that resolve? Life is guaranteed to have ups and downs. We go through smoothe patches and rough patches. You have days where you feel constant love, gratitude and appreciation and then days where you can't stand anyone or anything. It doesn't matter WHO you are or WHO you're with, it's 100% guaranteed to [...]
Listen there is no destination. Sometimes I don't like that either but it's true. There is no place you are getting to. Each "destination" evolves into another goal that unearths inside your heart the moment you get there. I was driving yesterday and was looking at passing cars and thought to myself "everyone [...]
Did you really think you needed to wait? You know that time doesn't really exist spiritually, right? Like our time and God's time are totally separate things. Divine time is not linear time. There aren't minutes, hours, years. You have all you want and need RIGHT NOW spiritually. You just can't see it. Because you're [...]
For as long as I can remember I've been comparing myself to others around me. Even when I don't think I'm comparing, I'm comparing. Even when I intentionally try not to compare, I still compare. As humans we're prone to looking externally and seeking out what we perceive we're missing internally. But recently something clicked [...]
Stop trying to figure it out. It's a form of control. I would know...I'm a control freak (recovering of course). See I used to think making sense of it would help me breakthrough it. But I was only delaying the breakthrough. Because the breakthrough comes when you simply let go. You let go of trying [...]
I reach this place from time to time where I find myself saying, "I don't want to know." It's a really nice place to reach.....and no, not for the implied ignorance this statement might initially make you believe. It actually relates to business. You don't often see me write or talk about business, but I [...]
